The complaints are all of the mind, they are not of the body. Therefore, tell the mind, "Do not complain right now, when the time comes, you will receive it."
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanYour vyavahaar (worldly interactions) should be pure, only then can the self become pure. Nobody should complain [about you].
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanAny circumstance that we have come across should be resolved in such a way that no complain arises for it. It is fine if the other person does not become happy, but there should be no complain from him.
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanNo human being really has any misery. It is your own mistake if you complain of the misery.
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanAt the time of death, one says, ‘Dear Lord, extend my life for two more hours, so that a Gnani Purush [the enlightened one] comes and I can do his darshan.’ He complains in this way. Do not complain now. Why are you pleading now? When you had the control, you didn’t do anything and now that you no longer have the control, you are making demands?
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanIf anyone comes to me complaining about others that “this person is like this”, I will question that person first. ‘Why did you come complaining to me?’ You come complaining therefore you are the guilty one. If anyone comes complaining without being asked, then you should disregard him completely.
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanIf you have a complaint about someone, then you become the accuser and the other becomes the accused. Never complain about anyone. He who brings a complaint is at fault, you should understand that first, then comes next, the talk about the accused.
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanThe world believes ‘asakti’ [infatuation, attraction of atoms] to be love and (then) become confused. Woman has some work from men and men has some work from women. All this has arisen because of work (expectations). If work does not get completed, all within will complain and form an attack. Not for even a second has anyone become one’s own. Only the Gnani Purush [the enlightened one] will become yours. That is why the Lord has said, ‘Every living being is an orphan’.
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