We should definitely be able to adjust our discussion to the opposite person. If we cannot adjust our discussion to the opposite person, then that is our own mistake. It is not our own mistake in its entirety, but it is our mistake to some extent. If that mistake is destroyed, then the adjustment will be possible. The discussions of the vitaraag Lords are about adjusting everywhere.
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanIf anger, pride, deceit and greed end up arising, let them be. There is no problem even if thoughts of unworthy behaviour arise; do not be alarmed. However, make sure You [the Self] reverse them by doing pratikraman (three fold process of confessing the mistake, asking for forgiveness for it and resolving not to repeat it) for them in this way. That will result in a very elevated level of dharmadhyan (a virtuous internal state of being that prevents one from hurting oneself or others)!
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanThe one whose ‘alochana (confession of mistakes), pratikraman (asking for forgiveness) and pratyakhyan (avowal to never repeat the mistake)’ are true (done correctly), he is bound to attain the knowledge of the Self (attain self realization).
Param Pujya Dada BhagwanPointing out people’s mistakes, having intention to take advantage of people, keeps one bound to a worldly life (sansaar).
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