Discovering Love: Finding True Love in Reality

“I love you!” … “I love you!” … “He cheated on me!” … “Mom, you love brother more than me!”

In society, the word ‘love’ has been crippled so much so, that at every step, a question arises that what really is love? To express love, words like feelings, emotions, attachment, affection, lovingness, and care are also used. Are these feelings called love? Is this the right way of discovering love?

In daily interactions, the word ‘love’ is used at many places, but at the same time, in those very interactions or relationships, when attachment and hatred arise, then the question arises that is this love? Where in relationships, selfishness, slyness, desire of getting something in return is being indicated towards each other, is there really love there? When blames are being put on each other or accusations are being made against each other, that is when a question arises that can this happen where there is love? What can be called true love? Where can we find true love?

Replies to all these questions are found here from the embodiment of love Himself, the Enlightened One. He gives the definition of true love, with the help of which, all the misconceptions in the world regarding love are gotten rid of. One experiences immense pain in the heart when bitterness arises in the so-called love relationships in the world. How can a loving behavior be cultivated in all those relationships—that understanding is revealed here. Today, cases of falling in love, falling out of love, and consequently getting disheartened or depressed are common among the youth and teenagers. For them, a true understanding expressing the right path gets revealed here to help them on their journey of discovering love.

The whole world can only be conquered by true love. The pure love, that the world has not seen, not known, not believed, not experienced—that only is the divine love. The one who has tasted such love never ever forgets it! In today’s age, despite being trapped in all the worldly entanglements, the path to attain such pure love is disclosed here.

What is Pure Love?

What is pure love? If we love someone, then there should not be any expectations from that person, no attachment, no hatred and no seeing faults of that person. When our anger, pride, deceit, greed dissolves then only we can have pure love for everyone.

Spiritual Quotes

With love one would never see the fault of the wife or the children throughout his life. In love, one never sees any faults at all.
Infatuation and attraction can either be above normal or below normal. Love is within normality; it remains constant without changing.
Real love is that which remains the same whether one receives flowers or thorns of insults.
Real love is unadulterated and pure. Real love does not have motives of sex, greed or pride.
It is an illusion if people appear good and it is also an illusion if they appear to have faults. The former is because of attachment and the latter because of detachment. In reality everyone is faultless.
People want unconditional love, love devoid of selfishness.
Pure love, real love exists where there is no selfishness; where there are no feelings of 'yours-mine'. Wherever there is a feeling of' 'yours-mine', there is definitely selfishness as well as ignorance of the Self.
That which increases one moment and decreases the next, is not love: That which resides in the heart and remains the same, is real love.
The love between a real guru and the disciple is such that the disciple absorbs everything the guru says.
God exists where there is honesty in relative interactions and where there is pure love, which does not increase, or decrease. These are the two places where God resides. Where there is love, faith and purity, that is where God is.

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