How to be free from worldly relations?

Questioner: These nine kalams that are given, are they for the purification of thought, speech and conduct in this life?

Free From Worldly Relations

Dadashri: No, no. There is no need for that here. In this Akram path, this is not necessary at all. These nine kalams are given to liberate you from the hisaabs (accounts) created with others in your previous endless lives. They are given to clear your books (account). So if you say the nine kalams you will break roonanubandha, (link that has been made with people in previous lives). Roonanubandha, is preventing you from liberation. These nine kalams break these links. All your faults that have occurred up until now will be washed when you say these kalamas and the fruits will surely come.

Questioner: To do pratikraman for my faults, I constantly say the nine kalams daily. Will that give me strength?

Dadashri: The nine kalams you say are different and the pratikraman you do for your faults is different. You have to do pratikramans daily for your faults. By saying the nine kalams, you will be liberated from the problems created with other people in your endless past lives; you become free from roonanubandha. This is the highest pratikraman. The whole world's pratikraman is in these nine kalams. Do it properly. Having shown this to you, I am done with my work.

Related Science:

"The change of opinion changes the cause. That is why your responsibility ends if you recite this kalam.

Questioner: And this should be said sincerely.

Dadashri: All this has to be done sincerely. Whoever says the kalam is doing so with sincerity. His opinion has been separated. This is the highest science. You simply have to recite the nine kalams, you do not have to do any of it. You just have to ask for strength: 'Dada Bhagwan, give me strength. All I want is the strength.' You will receive this strength and your responsibility will end."

"These situations in life where we interact with other human beings are the result of an account of additions and subtractions of past life. We cannot change them. When we hurt others, we are multiplying the accounts. Therefore, appropriate divisions of these multiplications have to be done through the correct understanding of these kalams. This will ultimately result in a zero balance in your account."

"These kalams are merely to be spoken. You have to do these bhaavnas (Desires & Opinions) everyday. In essence it is the seed that we are planting. Having planted it, just wait and watch the effect whenever it comes forth. But until then you have to nurture it and fertilize it. Otherwise there is nothing that needs to be changed as the events unfold in this life. Whatever these events are, they are the effects of your bhaavnas of the past life."

"I am trying to free you from your opinions. Through this satsang of these kalams, you have formed a new opinion that it is wrong to hurt anyone's ego. Previously you had the opinion that this was allowed depending on your views of the situation. Such misunderstanding is the reason for this world of yours in this life. Now that you have changed this opinion, you will be liberated. You must make sure that you do not change this new opinion, under any circumstance."

"The whole atmosphere is full of parmanus (subatomic particles) and these vibrations reach the person who is the subject of slander. It is very dangerous to speak even a single reckless word about others. If you must say something, say something nice. Praise people but do not disgrace them"

Reference:

Book Name: The Essence Of All Religion (Page #37, Paragraph #6)

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